

This is the
illness that runs deep through our society's core. Our children believe in things because we have taught
them to, but they do not know why they believe in them. If I am not able to explain why I believe
(in) something do I truly believe it? I have no understanding of it, because
if I understood it I would be able to explain it and would therefore be in a
better position to believe it or not. This blind trust that what we are told is true is derived from social
indoctrination. It has stifled our creativity and made society – in the west at
least – complacent. We now largely lack critical thinking, we unquestioningly
lap up what we are told and reproduce it on a greater and greater scale.
Many people
try and blame technology for our problems. They blame computer games for the
violence, telephones for communication issues, social media for devastating the
confidence of youngsters and promoting promiscuous and “unsocial”
behaviour. All of that is not a failure
of technology, it is all a failure of society. We are too shallow and vain to be
able to use the great discoveries in a constructive manner –and by the way I
will be the first one to put my hand up and say that I waste my time on the
internet looking and stupid things, but I can also list under my hobbies “reading
Wikipedia entries and following the reference links”. As a professional nerd I
also correct Wikipedia entries .
Now social
structures exist for a reason, I am known to use Roger Griffin’s terminology - although probably not in the way he means it - and call those structures the “sacred canopy” – a protective layer of social norms, traditions
and religious practices that provide a community be it of local or national size
with rules by which they can exist in a comfortable and (re)productive way.
Social change comes about either when the sacred canopy is forcefully removed
through violent means or is eroded through the alienation of its members from
the community. Today in the 21st century both are occurring all
around the world simultaneously. Young people – of which I am still one for now
– find ourselves unable to find an identity because there is no stable
community from which we can derive it. As social creatures we identify
ourselves through languages, and language comes from our community/nation. When
the language that we use is conflicting or simply not delivered we can suffer
an identity crisis.
One way of
combating this is through equipping our children with skills to use knowledge
to (re)construct the sacred canopy, improve it even. So far we have failed, and I
think it is because we have forgotten to nurture, we have tried to give
equality to all and have therefore made everyone equally socially inept by distorting some natural roles within human structure and behaviour. While we have self awareness and higher intelligence than any other mammal, we also don't tend to develop the tendencies of a sociopath because we are brought up by our mothers (and more often these days fathers too) in a nurturing way. Unfortunately that has been eroded by the socio-economic need for both parents to work like horses just to make sure their children can eat. In turn the children lack the upbringing that would come naturally in a less materialistic system. We
are now vain, self absorbed, selfish, greedy and cruel, but we are only those
things because the social sphere we thrive in promotes that kind of language
and defines us so.
I have
endless faith in human nature, the empathy we are capable of displaying in our
darkest moments borders on the divine. Unless we teach our children how to be
empathic, be kind, be thoughtful, be useful, we will fail and self-destruct
through our own ignorance. Education is
not just being able to recite poetry, regurgitate hundred year old theory, and
answer a few mathematical problems. Education is about looking at what humanity
already knows, questioning it and testing it to see if it is still valid, God
knows we have disproved our own theories before! Education is knowing who you are, having
confidence in that, and using it to promote and improve others and their abilities and well
as your own. This is not something that people are born with, this is something
that is nurtured first at home and then if you are lucky at school and in the community.
When you
have children send them to school, let them learn history and the rest of it,
but also challenge them, make them do things that may scare them, ask them
questions, argue, disprove and improve their points of view, but most importantly allow them to change your point of view because age doesn't always mean wisdom. Sometimes young eyes see clearer.